The last few days has been a rollercoaster of emotions! These emotions have left me with many unanswered questions! Although I don’t want to blow anyone house up or their mouth anymore lol…the hurt is still there!!! I even was making some out of character post on Facebook and Twitter!!! While I was at my emotional high a young lady who also commented on a thread where I was cutting up made a statement that stuck in my head! She said….” Don’t be bitter be better”….hmmmmm?….I let that marinate in my brain so I can totally grasp this advice! As mad as I was….Sn: still am….I cannot allow this experience change me! Yes what has happen cannot be taken back!Although many apologies has been issued but I not ready to forgive yet!!! I know I will eventualy because I am too nice to hold a grudge forever!!! But for now ill just evaluate what I have learned and I concluded that although my feeling and ego is bruised….I will vow to be better not bitter!!!
Just because you forgive doesn’t mean you have to forget, but forgiveness will bring you peace. You can’t let those that hurt you also hurt your future. As long as you carry a grudge, you will never be free. Being bitter will not allow you to move on, but being better opens up new doors and opportunities. Just learn from your experiences and use them to your advantage.
Just because you forgive doesn’t mean you forget nor does it mean the person has to be in your life. You forgive and move pass it. Remember …forgiveness isn’t about the other person, it’s about us! It’s so that you can heal!
Thank you both!!! I have learn a valuable lesson behind this!! I will not allow things that happen to me change me!!!